1.29.2009

News from me old stompin' grounds

Recently the Allegheny County Council began to consider extending the county's existing nondiscrimination law to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in public accommodations, housing and employment.

Freelance writer, Christian, and Pittsburgh resident Angelle N. Guyette attended the council meeting during which the extension of rights was discussed. She published her thoughts yesterday in the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette in an opinion piece titled, "How do others see you? I'm ashamed of my hate-filled fellow Christians."
She writes:
Sinner! God himself will judge you," a fellow snarled as I passed. Angry men and women stared me down, posturing, as I made my way through the crowd.

I was scared.

The Allegheny County Council met two weeks ago to hear testimony about whether to include gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons among those against whom it would be unlawful to discriminate.

I'm straight but I support the legislation and wore a "Fairness to All" sticker, so some of the opponents made certain assumptions about me.

I've attended hearings on many topics where people angrily voiced their opinions, but the hatred evident at this gathering stunned me -- not only because of its ferocity, but also because of who was expressing it.

"They'll know we are Christians by our love" the song goes.

At this County Council meeting, you could know most of them by the hatred on their faces. The leaders of the religious opponents were the worst, displaying physical revulsion at having to stand near people they figured were gay. They looked like they'd have stoned Mary Magdalene, and her friends, too.

One minister's face contorted as he spoke, "Homosexuality is offensive because it is a sin. People choose to commit this sin. My congregants should not have to hire gays and condone a sinful lifestyle they find offensive."

One of his followers spat out, "I should not have to rent to those people. I don't want them sinning in my properties."

This made me recall a minister I had dated who had cheated on me when I thought we were practicing abstinence. Nice, clean-cut looking fellow. Dirty rat.
i think i like Ms. Guyette! Her story of the adulterous minister reminds me of something from my childhood. i recall overhearing my mother having a conversation with our minister, Rev. Maybelle Johnston. My mom was complaining about another local minister whom she had caught in a blatant and malicious lie. "Oh, Martha. All preachers lie. Didn't you know that?" said Rev. Maybelle.
A person of faith, I quit wearing a cross around my neck in public some years ago to avoid being identified with a growing "Christian" culture of bigotry and intolerance. After that County Council meeting, though, I'm finding it difficult even to pray: How can God let such hateful evil use His name?

I try to remember that "snakes in the garden have their purpose." The only way around hate is with love, so I spoke with a handful of the religious opponents after the council hearing.
Read the rest of Ms. Guyette's article at the Post-Gazette.

2 comments:

AngeLLeNG1 said...

Thanks, Scott, for posting my article. I am amazed at how far my words have traveled from Pittsburgh, PA. Ahhhhh, and the warm-sounding places I would so rather be sitting with my computer! (Arizona, California, Florida, Hawaii)

So many people have written that they have felt the same way, but that they have sat in their churches, silent, afraid to speak up or speak out when messages of hate were put forward as if endorsed by Jesus.

Many were even afraid to speak in support of legislation that would protect the GLBT community against discrimination for fear of repercussions in their small towns.

Lord, help me find the words and the means to help them understand, for this and all the other topics:

Folks, this is the United States of America. Our Freedom of Speech was not created just so people can swear on the airwaves. We have this freedom so that we the people can make a difference.

Disagreeing with attitudes that pervade your faith community does NOT make you un-American. It makes you an individual.

Speaking out and standing up for government legislation which either agrees with, or veers from, your church's official stance, is part of being free.

Refusing to be intimidated out of speaking up, AND also being mindful to treat with respect, those whose opinions differ from your own is the precious combination of responsibilities that keep us all free.

I've lived in other countries. I cry when I hear our National Anthem - not because I am such a patriot, but because I know, firsthand, how truly, living in a country where we have these freedoms is a very special blessing (and responsibility) given to us by God.

Loving one another despite our disagreements, is what makes us a very special blessing TO God.

Give thanks for your blessings,
by being one.

Speak up. Speak Out. Speak with Love for all.

scott said...

Thanks for dropping by, Angelle!

i'll bet warm sounds good to you considering the weather you folks have been having. My family still lives in the Pgh area, so i hear from them how cold it is. Brrrr!

You're putting words together well, that speak to people & carry far. Thanks for committing to that. :)